Happy 🐪 Day!
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You wake up from a long cryogenic sleep, and find the world
is vastly different from what you’d imagined it would be. So are the people around
you.
adversaria: (pl) (n) a miscellaneous collection of notes, remarks, or observations.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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You wake up from a long cryogenic sleep, and find the world
is vastly different from what you’d imagined it would be. So are the people around
you.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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It’s Christmas Eve, and you find a stranger’s been invited by
your family as well. Turns out this stranger is your long-lost sibling.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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One day, as you leave the office super late, you catch your
boss in the filing room destroying paperwork. Instead of going away, you decide
to hide and wait until he’s gone to check what it was.
Happy 🐪 Day! Can't believe we've been doing this for 6 months already :)
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You’re in your seventies and decide to take a computer programming
class. But one day, as the teacher’s explaining a particularly difficult piece
of coding, you find that sentences are appearing on your screen without any
prompting on your part.
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Having just been laid off, you suddenly find yourself free
for the first time in years, and decide to finally pursue the one thing you’ve
always dreamed of.
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As you browse books in your family library, you find the old
journal of your great-aunt.
Not only that, but rhymes also stick in our heads better, and longer, like many songs heard in our childhood. Incidentally, it's why I've always said Disney should make all of its animated features musicals, because those songs help anchor their stories in people's very beings, making potential lifelong fans of them, whereas those without songs often fade into obscurity.
So why does our brain latch onto rhymes so well (even if it could be to our detriment)? Well, rhymes makes statements catchy, pretty, and easier to process because of it (our brain LOVES patterns!).
As stated on Effectiviology, "[p]eople, such as marketers or politicians, might use the rhyme-as-reason effect as a manipulation technique, potentially in an attempt to get you to act irrationally and against your best interests." So whenever you hear a rhyme, be careful! Someone might be trying to pull one over you (looking at you, Mother Goose!).
Happy 🐪 Day!
Here's this week's writing prompt:
1.
Before you can graduate, you have to intern at an orphanage
and show you know your material by teaching there. But the children teach you
something else in return.
"The human individual lives usually far within his limits; he possesses powers of various sorts which he habitually fails to use. He energizes below his maximum, and he behaves below his optimum. In elementary faculty, in coordination, in power of inhibition and control, in ever conceivable way, his life is contracted like the field of vision of an hysteric subject--but with less excuse, for the poor hysteric is diseased, while in the rest of us, it is only an inveterate habit--the habit of inferiority to our full self--that is bad." ~ William James, Energies of Man, 1907
Why am I posting this quote? Because, as I get ready to face 2023 (I know, but it's already mid-November!!), I want to remind myself that it's too easy to let routine (or whatever other life event might be hitting me at one point or another) take over and sap my momentum.
Steven Kotler says in his book, The Art of Impossible, that we "lose by not trying to play full out, by not trying to do the impossible."
*Not a true representation of my writing desk |
The key for me, I believe, is to figure out how to get into the flow, where I can spend hours uninterrupted plunged into my own stories. As Kristine Kathryn Rusch wrote in one of her newsletters, "[r]eally good writers binge-write, the way many of us binge-read an author or binge-watch a really good show." That's what I want to work up to.
As Kotler stated, "the only real way to discover if you are capable of pulling off the impossible--whatever that is for you--is by attempting to pull off the impossible." And if I can't pull it off? Well, at least I'd be failing upwards. Right?
Happy 🐪 Day!
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You find an old, grizzled dog lying on the side of the road, clearly
abandoned, and decide to take him in.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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1. It’s a hundred years in the future, and contrary to past beliefs, humans have managed to save the world from utter destruction by using new technology and completely changing their way of life.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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Being really sick, you decide to go on a pilgrimage, seeking
faith and healing.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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You’ve had a very long week at work and, on your way back
home, decide to visit the old Roman baths that, surprisingly, are still
functional, and have been managed by the same mysterious family for over 1700
years.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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1.
A horn rings in the distance. The invaders have been sighted.
Despite news of their vileness and incredible strength, you decide to take up
arms to defend your land.
I've been reading this book people kept recommending to me: Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich*. First published in 1937, it talks about the principles one needs to follow to become rich in an era marked by the Great Depression.
The book has a lot of interesting advice (a lot of which is reminiscent of the Law of Attraction that's become big since the start of the 21st c.), as well as some sections which, although clearly dated, make for fascinating windows into that not-so-long-ago piece of history.
One of the chapters delves into what makes a great leader, as one needs to be a leader to make a fortune (as opposed to followers who are much less likely to get super rich), and the pitfalls these great leaders must avoid if they do not wish to go the way of the dodo.
I found his points to be thought-provoking, particularly in our world's current state where everything seems so uncertain (sometimes on the brink of global catastrophe), and there appears to be a dearth of good leadership.
So here's a summary of what Napoleon Hill advises on how to be a great leader. Tell me how you feel about it all after in the comments :)
Leadership Dos:
Happy 🐪 Day!
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You are at the market, buying ribbons, when you hear that Lord
Vale is about to settle in the estate next to yours, leaving you with mixed
feelings.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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You decide to go on a cruise with your three best friends.
But in the middle of the trip, the captain goes rogue, taking all passengers captive.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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You find a ceramic of a cute frog in an old furniture store.
As a joke, you kiss it one night, and are shocked when the statue does
transform.
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The world is falling apart, but you were never one to give
up, so you come up with a plan to save it, and need to bring your community
together to help you.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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One day, as you stare out of the living room window, you see
someone who looks just like you on the other side of the street, staring right back
at you.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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You’re out running in the park when you literally stumble
into the person who bullied you in seventh grade.
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You’re about to get married, but something keeps nagging at you as you stare at your partner smiling at you like they always do.
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You go to a school fair, where one of the kids reads your fortune. And it turns out to be eerily accurate.
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The bookstore down the street is closing, so you finally
decide to check it out. But when you do, things are utterly different than what
you’d expected.
Happy 🐪 Day!
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A neighborhood dog won’t stop barking, keeping you awake at
night. Finally, you decide to get up and do something about it.
In a world of intense turmoil, where everyone and everything seems to be polarized to the extreme, and the earth itself seems completely off-kilter, I find myself reading more and more about the human psyche in hopes of getting an understanding of how we could have ended up in such a state.
Apparently, the splintering of our society can be, in a pretty significant part, attributed to the universal emotion of disgust.
And I'm not talking about the cute emotion Disgust voiced by Mindy Kaling in Pixar's Inside Out (though the movie is great).
Disgust, voiced by Mindy Kaling source: Time |
"Disgust," as explained in a Nature article on the topic, "is related to bodily purity and integrity, with things that should be on the outside--such as faeces--kept out, and things that should be on the inside--such as blood--kept in."
All very natural. But with humans, disgust can go beyond the primary visceral reaction (aka core emotion') in applying the feeling to more abstract situations, including moral issues. For instance, one can feel disgust at the idea of a person being deliberately cruel to a cute, fluffy kitten, just as one could feel disgust at the idea of someone eating their snot. "People labelled as disgusting in this way evoke fears of contamination just as rotting food does."
Turns out the brain can barely distinguish the difference "between core and moral disgust." Both register close to the same way in MRI scans, with lots of overlaps.So why is disgust then linked to the slow disintegration of our current western society, as mentioned earlier? Because "visceral disgust will sometimes affect ethical judgments." Disgust, you see, can override our higher instincts of empathy and compassion!
The roots of this could be linked to human evolution. Some theories postulate that humans wouldn't have survived, and thrived, if they hadn't been fundamentally kind to each other and cooperative(1). Thus, the article continues, "[i]n making symbolic distinctions between us and them visceral, disgust could potentially foster greater cohesion within groups by bringing people together in defence against a common out-group" (the 'others'). Basically, our disgust of a certain type of individual (say mass murderers) is for the better of the overall society. But it can also be distorted...
"Where core disgust is the guardian of the body, moral disgust acts as the guardian of social body--that's when disgust shows its ugliest side."
This is how propagandists and demagogues have hijacked people's brain throughout history: By causing them to associate a particular group of people with this feeling of utter disgust, until those preached to believe those people are not only 'other,' but also 'enemy.'"Our moral disgust/indignation brain network is the source of prejudice, stereotyping and sometimes outward aggression." It is therefore highly important for us, whenever we feel disgust, to not react automatically based on that feeling, but to deconstruct our feelings of disgust to truly understand where they stem from before we make any sort of moral judgment.
Of course, this is easier said than done. But it is crucial if we want to live in a healthy society, for allowing our disgust to become our moral compass--without appealing to our higher feelings of, say, love and understanding--leads to severe injustice and tyranny.
"History seems to bear this out. Women (especially menstruating ones), the mentally and physically disabled, and inter-racial sex have all been viewed with disgust, and are still viewed as such by some."
But what if instead we "cultivat[ed] cultural and personal values of tolerance and empathy" instead? What would our world look like then? How much greater our progress and prosperity?
Sources and Additional Resources:
(1) In Human kind, a Hopeful History*, author Rutger Bregman discusses this very concept of humans being good by nature and are therefore more prone to cooperation and trust, rather than the traditional Law of the Jungle theory that competition and mistrust are what helped us humans survive to this day.
(2) You can read the full article The Depths of Disgust by Dan Jones published in Nature in 2007 here.
(3) I discovered this article thanks to a very interesting thread by Vince Scafaria on Twitter which discusses the current war on democracy led by a number of people, and how they're using this concept of disgust, along with concepts of the Moral Foundation Theory to do so.
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Happy 🐪 Day!
Here's this week's writing prompt:
1.
Flowers are delivered for you at the office, with no name
written on the card. Just one message.
I'm going through Steven Pressfield's latest book, Put Your Ass Where Your Heart Wants To Be*, and in chapter 25, he transcribes part of an article that concert pianist James Rhodes had written for The Guardian titled "Find what you love and let it kill you."(1)
I found it fascinating, and inspiring, so I'm sharing it here with you as well:
I didn't play the piano for ten years. A decade of slow death by greed working in the City, chasing something that never existed in the first place (security, self-worth, [etc.]). And only when the pain of not doing it got greater than the imagined pain of doing it did I somehow find the balls to pursue what I really wanted and had been obsessed by since the age of seven--to be a concert pianist.
Admittedly I went a little extreme--no income for five years, six hours a day of intense practice, monthly four-day long lessons with a brilliant and psychopathic teacher in Verona, a hunger for something that was so necessary it cost me my marriage, nine months in a mental hospital, most of my dignity and about thirty-five pounds in weight. And the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow is not perhaps the Disney ending I'd envisaged as I lay in bed aged ten listening to Horowitz devouring Rachmaninov at Carnegie Hall.
My life [today] involves endless hours of repetitive and frustrating practising, lonely hotel rooms, dodgy pianos, aggressively bitchy reviews, isolation, confusing airline reward programmes, physiotherapy, stretches of nervous boredom (counting ceiling tiles backstage as the house slowly fills up) punctuated by short moments of extreme pressure (playing 120,000 notes from memory in the right order with the right fingers, the right sound, the right pedalling while chatting about the composers and pieces and knowing there are critics, recording devices, my mum, the ghosts of the past, all there watching), and perhaps most crushingly, the realisation that I will never, ever give the perfect recital. It can only ever, with luck, hard work and a hefty dose of self-forgiveness, be "good enough."
And yet. The indescribably reward of taking a bunch of ink on paper from the shelf at Chappell of Bond Street, tubing it home, setting the score, pencil, coffee and ashtray on the piano and emerging a few days, weeks or months later able to perform something that some mad, genius, lunatic of a composer three hundred years ago heard in his head while out of his mind with grief or love or syphilis. A piece of music that will always baffle the greatest minds in the world, that simply cannot be made sense of, that is still living and floating in the ether and will do so for yet more centuries to come. That is extraordinary. And I did that. I do it, to my continual astonishment, all the time.
Sources:
James Rhodes: Find what you love and let it kill you, The Guardian, April 26, 2013 -- full article
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Happy 🐪 Day!
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A phone call wakes you up early one morning telling you your
father fell down the stairs.
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A stranger unexpectedly helps you when you’ve fallen down,
and when they leave, you realize that they left something behind.
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Birds have gathered ominously in your garden, covering every
inch of it. And they’re all looking straight at you.
Back in the first half of the 20th century, Russian film-maker Lev Kuleshov produced a short film in which he alternated shots of an actor after images of a bowl of soup, a girl in a coffin, or a woman reclining in a divan. Each shot of the main actor was exactly the same, yet the audience left the viewing convinced that he had magnificently expressed alternately hunger, grief, and desire.
Kuleshov Effect (1) |
That was when Kuleshov discovered the associative power of the human mind using cutting techniques in film, for humans have the "need to impose order on the world. [Therefore, i]f an audience is presented with disparate images it will assemble them into a meaningful order."(2)
This, in short, is the Kuleshov effect.
As mentioned in Into the Woods by John Yorke, Finding Nemo co-writer Bob Peterson stated on the use of the Kuleshov effect in storytelling:
"Good storytelling never gives you four, it gives you two plus two... Don't give the audience the answer; give the audience the pieces and compel them to conclude the answer. Audiences have an unconscious desire to work for their entertainment. They are rewarded with a sense of thrill and delight when they find the answers themselves."
But it doesn't only work with visual images.
As a writer, you can juxtapose descriptions, lines of dialogues, or actions (or a combination thereof) in such a way that, when taken individually, each element might seem unrelated, but put next to each other brings a whole new meaning that's not obvious from the words themselves, but from the implications behind them.
It's a way to create subtext, and it draws the reader's (or viewer's) attention in. Because they have to work to make the connection to get the underlying meaning.
For example, say you have a woman who tells her lover that she now hates him and wants him to go, but she's crying and her fingers won't unclench from around the hem of his jacket, you understand that she actually loves him, so must be telling him to save him in some way (perhaps from her jealous husband, or from the Nazis, or from her parents who can't stand his family).
Hitchcock's Kuleshov Effect - Film Montage (3) |
And it's by making readers interpret your scenes in this manner, that the writer helps them get more invested in the story, and they end up caring about the story because they've invested themselves (through their thinking power) into it as well (in a way, co-creating it with the author!).
Sources:
Happy 🐪 Day!
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You get an indecent proposal at work, but it’s not for what
you think.
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You’ve received a rat for your birthday, and, considering who
gave it to you, you know can’t get rid of it. Ever.
Hello,
I'm going to try something new here, and, as I (albeit snail-like) am posting more on the art of writing, I thought I'd also share some writing prompts.
The reason behind this is that I've had a very hard few years where events and health heavily impacted my storytelling ability. However, in my battle to reclaim myself--and my writing--one of the exercises I found that helped me was coming up with 400 words (didn't have to be a full story) using a prompt as a starter.
The key was to let my imagination run wild, using all the senses to describe the scene, and thereby rediscover the fun in writing.
So, hopefully, these weekly(1) prompts might help someone else facing the same difficulties.
So here's the first prompt:
It's night, and a robot has somehow ended up before what appears to be an abandoned farm house.
Notes:
(1) I'm going to try providing weekly prompts for a year, then see after that :)
"It's an astonishing fact of human culture: what lasts is what mystifies. Time is an acid that destroys answers. It ruins our certainties. What remains instead are those stories and paintings and characters that find ways to contain what they cannot fathom, hooking us with their unspilled secrets. They are alive with the mystery of the universe. Which is why they live on."
~Jonah Lehrer, Mystery: A Seduction A Strategy, A Solution